Initial hook: Start the story with, “Have you ever met a gay cat?” After this, you’ll have the undivided attention of your audience.

PUA: Ok, get this, my friend Sara, bought 3 cats some time ago. I dont know what she was thinking when she bought them, but she bought all three *male* cats. It was so funny. When I would go to her place to visit her, I would see the cats spooning each other, sometimes even licking each other.

HB: smiling

PUA: No Really. I told Sara “you know what, I think they’re gay, I mean not gay by birth, but maybe prison gay…you know. I mean they havent seen a female cat in months…what are they supposed to do” So Sara started getting freaked out, its amazing how she never thought about it. And we decided one day that we’re gonna do something about it, coz the last thing Sara wanted were gay cats. So we embarked on a mission to find a female cat.

HB: hehehe

PUA: And Sara had a neighbor that she really hated, he had a female cat, so once while the guy was away, we stole it and put it in the room with three male cats. Only God knows what happened then.

HB: LOL!!

Punchline: “So now her neighbor’s cat is knocked up. So pretty soon I think I know where you can get your very own little gay kitten!”

Cats don’t take orders, but they can be tempted to chase. If you tie a feather to the end of a string, and use it properly, you can get a cat to perform acrobatics. But as soon as you put the feather down in front of the cat, she will turn up her nose and walk away bored.

Cats are always curious, especially about shiny new things such as the ball on a string, the catnip, the treats, the feather on a string etc. She can be easily destracted, but once she is invested in trying to catch something, it can become her single minded focus.

There is a lot to learn from cats. If you push a cat off of you, she jumps back into your lap. If you want to hold her, then she wants you to put her down. If she is feeling nasty she might bite of scratch. She craves attention and she gets jealous of other cats. Sometimes she’ll just rub against you and purr with contentment, you can really tell when a cat likes someone.

A cat sees the feather from across the room, but continues about her business. Then the feather slightly moves and her gaze is drawn. When the feather jumps just once or twice more, she starts to steadily creep in its direction. Jerk the string at just the right time, and the cat suddenly goes crazy, running circles around the room, flying over furniture, doing everything to catch the feather.

As a PUA you must balance validation and attention so it is just out of her reach but not completely unattainable as she will lose interest and give up.

KEEP THE BAIT JUST BARELY OUT OF REACH AND CONTINUALLY ENTICE HER IN SMALL MOVEMENTS.

Author-Mystery

“You do NOT have to answer questions asked of you. In HOOP THEORY, a girl gives you a HOOP and AFCs think they HAVE to jump through it. Simply, grab the hoop FROM HER and get her to jump through it or present another hoop to HER. OR … just don’t jump through her hoop and leave it at that. SILENCE is often the BEST REPLY.”
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Grabbing her hoop:
HB: Will you buy me a drink?
YOU: Buy ME a drink and we will see.

Putting up a new hoop:
HB: Why are you talking to me?
YOU: Hey why do you do wear your lipstick like that?

Silence:
HB: What is with your shirt?
You:

Author-Mystery

How To Qualify

 Borrowed from mystery
Try to approach this from a very natural perspective. Ask yourself – what do you want in a woman besides looks? Does this woman meet your standards as a human being? In Magic Bullets, Savoy says, “Figure out what you really want in a woman, and then take this a step further by asking yourself how a woman who possessed those characteristics would present herself. Now, spend your Qualification phase looking for precisely that. For example, among other things, I value intelligence and education. I screen for this in qualification, by asking her about books she has read and movies she has seen.” This is spot on.

I personally ask the following questions in qualification:

• ‘Cool people are a dying breed. What do you do for fun?’
• ‘I get the feeling that you’re job doesn’t completely fulfil you creatively. Do you have a passion outside of work?’
• ‘My ex used to say that there are two types of people in this world – boring and crazy. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?’ (NB this is sometimes followed by – ‘where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?’)
• ‘So what do you want to be when you grow up?’
• ‘What would you say are your 3 best qualities?’

Importantly, do not just IOI directly after the response that they give. I always inquire deeper into the interest/topic/issue. Only when they say something unique, should you actually give an IOI (or reward and relate) – see below for more on this.

Common Mistakes

• Don’t simply give IOI’s for anything she says while qualifying. Try and inquire a little bit deeper and get some unique information out. Qualification is a form of connecting to the girl on a more emotional level. For example, is you say, “Are you adventurous?” and she says “Yes”, don’t just stop there! Ask her “So what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?” When she describes it to you, only then reward and relate. The point is to make her work a little bit for your approval.
• Qualification can get boring if you’re not being inquiring. The crux point is this: the attraction phase is based more on wide repore (i.e. multiple conversational threads, changing topics and transitioning incessantly). The qualification phase is based more on deep repore (i.e. emotional connection, asking questions, reward and relating).
• Don’t forget to sexually escalate during, and after, qualification. What I mean by sexual escalation is moving towards the kiss close and/or establishing sexual interest and/or establishing that you are a sexual threat. It’s fine to escalate during the qualification (in fact you should be doing this) but once you have actually qualified her, you definitely should escalate further. I might make a completely separate post of proper escalation if there is enough interest but for now, you can sexually escalate by any combination of the following: keeping strong eye contact (‘bedroom’ eyes), triangular gazing, lowering your tonality, allow conversation to gravitate towards sexual topics and keeping prolonged or more intimate kino (e.g. touch/hold her hands or touch back of neck if she is talking into her ear).

Hey hash and fred good to see others my age on here, I’m 18.

My story is short and simple, I was born a natural. I was fooling around with girls by the age of 5 (or was it 6?). Sense it’s hard to get girls to sleep with you at those ages and even all the way up until maybe 16 or 18 I’ve only slept with 2 women but fooled around with about 20(to the point of getting off).

Now you may be wondering “then what the hell are you doing here?”. Well I fell in love freshman year of high school and dated this awsome russian 8.5, who was a great g/f, for about a year and 2 months. I can now speak russian thanks to that haha and women love it.

But also thanks to that when we broke up, I actually broke up with her, mostly from pressure of like 3 or 4 different girls yelling at me to break up with her >_< . Then about an hour or 2 after doing that i of course run screaming back “take me take me!” of course she said no.

I went through hell for awhile especially considering she led me on into thinking we MAY get back together again.. but later according to her she was just using me as her boy toy till  she found the next guy.

That put me through more hell and i spent the next 3 years of highschool in hell. Jerking off every day after school, screwing up with women i should have gotten just fine. Denying women who wanted me. not shaving (still don’t i look good a little unshaven). Generally slowly rotting away.

Then one day i was all “women suck! I’m gonna learn to fuck them and then dump them” of course thats just bullshit because i was just so mad at the time. Then i googled “how to get laid” and came apon ross jefferies free “lay guide”. I have been deep in the community ever sense. By the way i love women was just in that moment of anger and rage and frustration that i felt that way.. it helped me change so I’m glad for it. I am also glad that I met that russian that “ruined my life” because it led me to this life and it is by far so much better then my AFC days.
I rock at isolation and escalation. My downfall is actually in the approach and I am working on it. Not gonna lie, I would love to be a Pick Up Artist one day, but for now I’m really nothing more than a player.

-Rubix

Random text from an ex from long ago, like 2 or 3 months(notredhead):

One more thing, for your self confidence or something. Your good at making out. Compared to some others.

What the hell is that? also do all girls just tell guys that they are good kissers? because I get that from everyone.

This post was inspired by a post by someone I read on another blog, and this is in no way a bash on him, he’s a good guy. Now on to the NLP bashing; NLP is really REALLY stupid when it comes to seduction, Pick up arts, the game or whatever else you want to call the community. The game is not ONLY about the women (they may just be the best part though), it’s about improving your lifestyle and if all you’re doing is hypnotizing women, what have you improved on? You are still the same old loser that you were before except with a few tricks. If you want to get good with women I suggest the good old natural route: Improving your surroundings, improving your friends, and improving yourself.

OK I’m done with NLP bashing for now, now I’m off to go fix up my pad (all day ) so I will be back on later to hopefully Improve the site a little, answer comments, and to write a post on my new year’s events.

-Rubix

p.s. If anyone has links about a good way to fix up my pad, that would be great.

Hello, my name is Rubix. I can’t tell you my real name in fear of my identity being figured out by those in field; sorry. Sense this is my first post I guess introductions are in order *warning depressing shit ahead* . I’ve been into the game for a little bit now.. really only half assing it.. using it mostly to hook up with ex’s just for validations sake. Oh and I am only 18 and 2 months, SHOCKER! Anyways now that we have that out of the way we can get back to the story .

So I’ve come to a point in my life where I look around me and I have realized that I need to change or I’m gonna be as fucked up as those around me, or worse. To give an example here are the backdrops of the people I’m friends/were friends with:

—-Names have been ****ed out for privacy—-

Me-Stoner, barely passing school, drugy, faker

*****-Stoner, Alcoholic, Whore, Drugy

*****-Has a kid, Lives at home with her single and poor mom, B/F is in jail, only 17

*****-Died in an alcoholic car crash (his fault)

*****- Gang banger now, Gang’s sex whore, Drugy

*****-Fat pathetic loser, Stoner

*****-messed up in the head, Stoner, Drugy, Whore *she is super hot though*

*****-Still really nice and doing good in school and life but is friends with above.. also she is a stoner

*****-lucky girl moved

*****-Multiple suicide attempts, Cutter, Stoner, Drugy, Alcoholic, Married by 18

*****-Just a stupid annoying whore

“Cool Gangster Friends”-All dropped out and haven’t seen or heard them sense

*****-ODed in school, dropped out, cutter, poet, suicidal

*****-Alcoholic, Drugy, Stoner, Cutter, attempted suicide, drunk abusive dad, dad raped her, she moved

*****-Funny midget (really!), stoner

*****-She was balemic(sp?) in middle school and a cutter but I managed to help her out.. until the school districts changed for some reason and split our school in 2 categories; those who stayed, and those who left.. she left and was balemic again,then stoner, alcoholic, and super shallow

*****-Stoner,Drugy, and last time anyone heard from him he was hiding somewhere in texas from some mexican gangs he riped off up here

*****-used to be real smart and sweet but now she is emo,sluty,and an alchy

*****-was actually my very first real relationship.. lasted 3 months in elementry school and didn’t even kiss her… I hear she’s a lesbian now

*****-Not sure whats up with her…

*****-used to be cool but now he’s a drugy loser but he sure does get laid though

*****-fat pathetic fucker who sells coke now… but he has always been a fat pathetic fucker

***** and *****- put these 2 together because they are religious nuts and are total nerds who never get laid, also sad fuckers

*****(Buddha)-is an old football buddy from waaay back, he is actually doing pretty good besides being fat (he needs to be for the offensive line), he’s got a LTR going  and his life is overall pretty good, good for you man

Ok, see that was just so you get the point of where I am coming from. Now it may not seem so but I actually live in a pretty nice neighborhood, full of beautiful women and opportunity, I guess I was just with the wrong crowd. Everyone around me is either dead, dieing, or slowly rotting away like a crab being sooo sllloowlly boiled he doesn’t even notice. My goal is to step up my game and have some crazy fun adventure and also to improve my life-style 10 fold.

 Now I’ve always seen the huge role of “self development” in the game and I believe it will really help me make it out of here. So I guess now is the time for change, now is the time to really start my adventure and really start improving my life. Wish me luck.